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<h2>The Story Behind the Struggle</h2>She sits across from me, tears streaming down her face as she describes another argument with her husband."He never says he loves me without me asking first," she whispers. "I need constant reassurance that he won't leave, but the more I ask for it, the more distant he becomes."As we talk deeper, the real story emerges: her father left when she was 11. He was inconsistent with affection, critical of her efforts, and emotionally unavailable long before he physically departed.Now, twenty years later, she’s demanding that her husband heal wounds he didn’t create and cannot fix.Father wounds refer to the emotional pain or scars left by an imperfect or absent fathering experience. These wounds can stem from neglect, abuse, lack of support, or unmet expectations during childhood. For many, these unresolved issues can seep into adult relationships, particularly marriages, potentially causing misunderstandings and conflicts.Recognising the existence of these wounds is the first step towards healing. It’s essential to understand that these issues are not uncommon and that addressing them can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling marriage.<figure id="figure-sp1l8puxmmfcjwbmu"><img id="sp1l8puxmmfcjwbmu" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/35c0GMtMYaQM427Os5bmEOyk6UbRZhgXF7ijDboe7tnxzpvE6RAo3tYNsDYTtpQA.jpg" alt="emotional healing" title="emotional healing" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: null% 30%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null%" data-positiony="30%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/35c0GMtMYaQM427Os5bmEOyk6UbRZhgXF7ijDboe7tnxzpvE6RAo3tYNsDYTtpQA.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: null% 30%;"></figure><h2>The Father Blueprint</h2>Your earthly father was meant to be your first glimpse of God’s fatherly love — protective, providing, and affirming your worth as His daughter. Whether he succeeded or failed in this role, his influence became the blueprint for how you expect to be loved by men, including your husband.If your father was absent → you may constantly seek validation, needing your husband to prove his love repeatedly, or panicking when he’s away.If your father was harsh or critical → you may struggle to receive compliments or brace yourself for rejection even in loving moments.If your father was inconsistent → you may find it hard to trust your husband’s affection as genuine and lasting. <h3>The Marriage Pressure Cooker</h3>Here’s what happens when unhealed father wounds meet marriage expectations:You unconsciously pressure your husband to be the perfect father you never had.You expect him to validate you in ways that fill the father-shaped hole in your heart.When he falls short — because he’s human, not God — you feel betrayed and disappointed. This creates a cycle: the more you demand reassurance, the more suffocated he feels → the more he withdraws → the more your father abandonment wounds get triggered. <blockquote>Your husband becomes exhausted trying to heal wounds that aren’t his responsibility to fix.</blockquote><figure id="figure-rsgt6ucq7bmfcmg7n6"><img id="rsgt6ucq7bmfcmg7n6" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/0XKmHT5p19YsM4bHBjkC2LZt9x8lc5HmajnugrSSJbTn9dEQtEi2Fvqtj7I8yz9b.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/0XKmHT5p19YsM4bHBjkC2LZt9x8lc5HmajnugrSSJbTn9dEQtEi2Fvqtj7I8yz9b.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined% 25%;"></figure><h2>What Scripture Says About Our True Father</h2>“A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling.” – Psalm 68:5“Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of Your hand.” – Isaiah 64:8The beautiful truth: God wants to be the perfect Father you never had. He doesn’t erase your earthly father’s influence, but He can redeem and transform it.When you anchor your identity in His love, you stop pressuring your husband to heal wounds only God can. <h3>Signs Your Father Wounds Are Affecting Your Marriage</h3>You constantly need verbal affirmation (“I love you”) and feel unloved without it.You struggle to trust or respect your husband’s leadership.You are hypersensitive to perceived rejection.You compare your husband to others constantly.<figure id="figure-gzkxhuht3smfcjwrkb"><img id="gzkxhuht3smfcjwrkb" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/20SDtvz3dRCGyiA6FPQoRCIEKsoLj9hRYCVTjeEe5ShSr87bgdcChoYr8sE6s4P7.jpg" alt="forgiveness concept" title="forgiveness concept" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/20SDtvz3dRCGyiA6FPQoRCIEKsoLj9hRYCVTjeEe5ShSr87bgdcChoYr8sE6s4P7.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: center center;"></figure>As you embark on this journey of healing and growth, remember that each step forward is significant. Strengthening your marriage through addressing father wounds is a courageous endeavor that can lead to profound personal and relational transformation.Your commitment to healing not only benefits your marriage but also sets a positive example for future generations, fostering an example of open communication and emotional well-being in your family. <h3>The Path to Healing</h3>1. Acknowledge the wounds honestly. Stop pretending they didn’t affect you. You can honour your father while still recognising where he fell short.2. Grieve and release what you didn’t receive. Mourning unmet needs is not bitterness — it’s a step toward healing.3. Learn to receive love from your heavenly Father. “See what great love the Father has lavished on us…” (1 John 3:1).4. Stop testing your husband. Don’t set up hidden tests for his love. Instead, receive his love in the ways he naturally expresses it.<figure id="figure-yau40mxm9jmfclucnd"><img id="yau40mxm9jmfclucnd" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/291ub5SNrgQLXPpGQYtdRckhxg1NpEXlYhZXcIr66qiM0tmyx6AVgrgrSLt94LGC.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: 30% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="30%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/291ub5SNrgQLXPpGQYtdRckhxg1NpEXlYhZXcIr66qiM0tmyx6AVgrgrSLt94LGC.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: 30% 25%;"></figure>When you find security in God’s fatherly love rather than your husband’s performance, something beautiful happens:<ul><li>You set your husband free to love you as a husband, not a replacement father.</li><li>You stop demanding perfection and start appreciating him for who he is.</li><li>You support his leadership because you trust God’s design, not because your husband has to prove himself flawless.</li></ul><h3>Practical Steps Forward</h3>Pray specifically about your father relationship. Ask God to reveal how it shaped your expectations.Communicate openly with your husband about your healing journey. Explain that your need for reassurance isn’t about his failure.Seek wise counsel. Some wounds are deep and need the guidance of Christian counselling to heal fully.<figure id="figure-wwm0nzamitmfcl9ka8"><img id="wwm0nzamitmfcl9ka8" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/f61xm5wPPKnQPJxJWwLYCSn0xukZd2WxjRhA4C9RQz9gym4XthJVILCcyn8YCy3v.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/f61xm5wPPKnQPJxJWwLYCSn0xukZd2WxjRhA4C9RQz9gym4XthJVILCcyn8YCy3v.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined% 25%;"></figure><h3>&nbsp;Reflection Question</h3>What father patterns — positive or challenging — do you see shaping your marriage today? If today’s post stirred something in you and you realise your father wounds are still shaping your marriage, you don’t have to carry it alone. Need to Talk? is a space where you can process those wounds with support and truth. Click here to begin your journey of healing. <a title="Need to Talk?" href="https://wisewivescommunity.com/need-to-talk" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-mce-href="https://wisewivescommunity.com/need-to-talk">https://wisewivescommunity.com/need-to-talk</a>

Healing Father Wounds to Strengthen Your Marriage

<h2>The Importance of Setting Boundaries</h2>Friendships are a vital part of our lives, providing companionship, support, and joy. However, maintaining healthy friendships requires setting boundaries that reflect our values and beliefs. Setting godly boundaries in friendships ensures that our relationships are not only enjoyable but also spiritually enriching. Not every “friend” is a friend to your marriage. Some build you up, others slowly chip away at your peace. The Bible is clear: “Bad company corrupts good morals.” (1 Corinthians 15:33). And yet, many wives struggle with knowing where to draw the line when it comes to friendships. <blockquote>Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. – Proverbs 13:20</blockquote>Friendships can either pour life into your home or drain it dry. That “innocent” friend who constantly complains about her husband? Slowly, her words shape how you see your own. That friend who insists on pulling you into gossip and drama? She’s sowing seeds of discord. Wisdom means recognising the difference between friendships that sharpen your faith and those that sabotage it. Boundaries aren’t about being harsh; they’re about protecting what God has entrusted to you — your marriage, your peace, and your walk with Him.<h3>Understanding What Boundaries Are</h3>Ask yourself: Does this friendship push me closer to Christ and my husband, or pull me away? If the answer stings, it may be time for a boundary. Start small — less time, less emotional investment — and watch how your spirit feels lighter. When we understand what boundaries are, we can communicate our limits clearly to our friends. This clarity helps in preventing unnecessary hurt or resentment and fosters a mutual respect for each other's needs.<h2>Setting Boundaries with Love</h2>Setting godly boundaries isn't about building walls to shut people out; it's about creating a space where love and respect can flourish. Approach these conversations with prayer and seek wisdom from God to express your needs lovingly and assertively.<figure id="figure-k9o1tsgenomf5enkpo"><img id="k9o1tsgenomf5enkpo" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/21kim7Rlu6BLdjrlyJHluLLrsIlE6Gr2gGCTCRIdKWngbaNkSPsSqIPIpKTdgqv6.jpg" alt="friends talking" title="friends talking" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/21kim7Rlu6BLdjrlyJHluLLrsIlE6Gr2gGCTCRIdKWngbaNkSPsSqIPIpKTdgqv6.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Consider Jesus' example in the Bible. He set clear boundaries with his disciples and the people around him, yet always acted with compassion and kindness. Emulate His approach by being firm but gentle when communicating your boundaries.<h3>Practical Steps to Establish Boundaries</h3>Here are some practical steps to help you set godly boundaries in your friendships:<ul><li>Pray for Guidance: Ask God for wisdom in establishing boundaries that honour Him and strengthen your relationships.</li><li>Communicate Clearly: Be honest with your friends about your limits and expectations.</li><li>Stay Consistent: Ensure that your actions align with the boundaries you've set, and be consistent in upholding them.</li></ul><h2>Respecting Others' Boundaries</h2>Just as you set boundaries for yourself, it’s important to respect the boundaries of others. Acknowledge and honour your friends’ limits, which will contribute to a healthier and more balanced relationship.<figure id="figure-r76df6ox4nmf5envo8"><img id="r76df6ox4nmf5envo8" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/28aCFFnG8xfv1qaEA1sWeIlp4SRcTKKiT3ndwT927WAIercCYawlyMDl92qCabW3.jpeg" alt="respect in friendship" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/28aCFFnG8xfv1qaEA1sWeIlp4SRcTKKiT3ndwT927WAIercCYawlyMDl92qCabW3.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure>Remember that respecting others' boundaries is a reflection of your respect for them as individuals. It demonstrates love, maturity, and understanding, which are essential components of any godly relationship.<h3>The Role of Forgiveness</h3>Even with the best intentions, boundaries can sometimes be crossed. When this happens, forgiveness plays a crucial role in maintaining a godly friendship. Be ready to forgive others when they make mistakes and seek forgiveness when you err.By fostering an environment of grace and understanding, you can navigate the complexities of friendships while staying aligned with your faith. In the Wise Wives community, we talk honestly about how to spot red flags in friendships and how to build a circle that honours God and your marriage. Download our free checklist: “The Wise Wife’s Guide to Healthy Friendships” and start drawing boundaries with wisdom today. <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FPBDxGTHzOkpH5qSsspbtNJNGBfd8YBX/view?usp=drivesdk" data-mce-href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FPBDxGTHzOkpH5qSsspbtNJNGBfd8YBX/view?usp=drivesdk" style="font-family: inherit; font-weight: inherit;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-weight: inherit;">https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FPBDxGTHzOkpH5qSsspbtNJNGBfd8YBX/view?usp=drivesdk</a>

Setting Godly Boundaries in Friendships

<h2>Hello beautiful Wise Wives family,</h2>A new month always carries with it a fresh sense of possibility. God has so much in store for us this month. We're diving into something that touches every aspect of your life : Wisdom in Relationships.&nbsp;<blockquote>The wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. – James 3:17</blockquote>Marriage never exists in isolation. Like tributaries feeding a river, every relationship in your life flows into it - shaping how you love, trust, communicate, and connect with your husband.<figure id="figure-6exqb8oqb9mf21kiby"><img id="6exqb8oqb9mf21kiby" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/36pIAb5fZvxuyO43nlcOr5M8ZfnqiLksB7QuEp1Af61dGyJiQYdOtkAftOPwFM3g.png" alt="relationship advice" title="relationship advice" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: null% 30%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null%" data-positiony="30%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/36pIAb5fZvxuyO43nlcOr5M8ZfnqiLksB7QuEp1Af61dGyJiQYdOtkAftOPwFM3g.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: null% 30%;"></figure><h3>The Truth About Relationship Patterns</h3>Relationships can be our greatest blessing or our deepest challenge. Friendships, marriages, family ties, even workplace bonds — they each test whether we’re walking in godly wisdom or leaning on human instinct. As wives, the ripple of our choices extends far: how we speak, how we forgive, how we set boundaries, how we show love.Many of us are carrying invisible wounds from our father relationships that affect how we give and receive love from our husbands. We're tolerating toxic friendships that poison our perspective on marriage. We're using careless language about "work husbands" without realising we're creating emotional bonds that belong exclusively in our marriages. Some of us are allowing in-laws to overstep boundaries because we're afraid of conflict. Others are seeking from friends the emotional intimacy that should be cultivated with our husbands. We're letting comparison steal our gratitude and drama drain our peace.Wisdom is not about being the loudest voice in the room — it’s about discerning when to speak, when to listen, and when to simply pray.<h3>Why This Month Matters</h3>This month, we’ll lean into practical ways to strengthen the ties that matter, while also guarding against those that quietly erode peace. The way you learnt to love from your father becomes the template primarily for how you relate with God, and expect love from your husband. The trust patterns established with siblings echo in how you handle vulnerability in marriage. The boundaries you set with friends either protect or expose your marriage to unnecessary strain.Your relationships are either strengthening your marriage or subtly undermining it. There's no neutral ground.<figure id="figure-g0i39xv6amf21kxj9"><img id="g0i39xv6amf21kxj9" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2aOzORa71wBSJjdpbm4vo03xkTQWg5QOQr0u8bQdnhBa7fmVOnZ3L2J090QqnDcu.jpg" alt="communication tips" title="communication tips" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 30%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="30%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2aOzORa71wBSJjdpbm4vo03xkTQWg5QOQr0u8bQdnhBa7fmVOnZ3L2J090QqnDcu.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 30%;"></figure>Take a few quiet moments today to write down three relationships that are thriving and one that needs attention. Pray over them, asking the Lord to give you discernment and humility as you navigate each one.<h3>Community Connection:</h3>Inside the Wise Wives Community, we’ll be unpacking this theme week by week — tackling boundaries, in-laws, friendships, and even the unspoken struggles like emotional affairs. You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Want to go deeper? Join our Wise Wives community 2026 for daily practical wisdom, devotionals and a sisterhood committed to biblical marriage principles. Because wisdom shared is wisdom multiplied.<a href="https://selar.com/m/wisewives" data-mce-href="https://selar.com/m/wisewives">https://selar.com/m/wisewives</a>

Welcome to September: Walking in Wisdom in Relationships

<h3>Creating Room for God Daily</h3>Sacred Spaces was more than just a one-day event in July. Out of that gathering came a practical tool designed to help wives create room for God in their everyday lives: The Sacred Spaces Prayer Journal.<figure id="figure-dmd5tttciimexk5ivf"><img id="dmd5tttciimexk5ivf" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/16LW0FF0iqXnSUhAWzMXi8WByY2LYGIJSJmETndxe2I0veH19DnhfSqJJ4ZubYgQ.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/16LW0FF0iqXnSUhAWzMXi8WByY2LYGIJSJmETndxe2I0veH19DnhfSqJJ4ZubYgQ.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;"></figure>This journal was birthed from our desire to make intimacy with God not just an event, but a lifestyle. It helps you slow down, reflect, and keep company with God in the quiet moments of your day. <h3>What’s Inside</h3> Daily Scriptures — to centre your heart in God’s Word.Reflections&nbsp;— guiding you to think deeply about what God is saying.Prayer Focus — helping you talk to God honestly about your needs and His will.Journaling Space — lined sections for your personal prayers, confessions, and declarations.Every page is an invitation to sit with God and hear Him more clearly. <h3>Why This Journal Matters&nbsp;</h3>We live in a noisy world. Responsibilities, distractions, and routines often push prayer aside. The Sacred Spaces Prayer Journal helps you intentionally create space — right in your living room, office, or wherever you can pause. It’s a reminder that you don’t have to wait for a big gathering to encounter God. Your daily sacred space can begin with just one prayer. <h3>The Sacred Spaces Prayer Journal is available in digital format through our Selar store.</h3>Start your journey today — and make every day a sacred space.<a title="Sacred Spaces Prayer Journal " href="https://selar.com/m/wisewives" data-mce-href="https://selar.com/m/wisewives">https://selar.com/m/wisewives</a>

The Sacred Spaces Prayer Journal

On July 12th, Wise Wives hosted the maiden edition of Sacred Spaces at the LightHouse, home of the KUPES Young Women’s Network in Lusaka. The theme, “A Call to Intimacy with God,” invited women into worship, reflection, and renewal. Tickets sold out in just two and a half days — a powerful reminder of how deeply women long to encounter God in close fellowship. The day itself was unforgettable. We prayed, worshipped, laughed, and cried together. Sacred Spaces created an atmosphere where women could put aside the noise of life and truly draw near to God. Many who attended still speak of the healing, encouragement, and renewal that took place.<figure id="figure-m3cj6bnqt9mexiq333"><img id="m3cj6bnqt9mexiq333" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/1bs50zQ53qJsgT5YsdkXX1oLUpLlazwmJxUpHcstqSmRzsSB52v9ZN9LJ8Y9DQXc.jpg" alt="peaceful meditation" title="peaceful meditation" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 40% 10%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="40%" data-positiony="10%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/1bs50zQ53qJsgT5YsdkXX1oLUpLlazwmJxUpHcstqSmRzsSB52v9ZN9LJ8Y9DQXc.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 40% 10%;"></figure><h2> </h2>See the photos: Visit our homepage gallery to glimpse some of the special moments captured that day — women in worship, sisters in prayer, and joyful fellowship.<h3> </h3><h3>Honouring Our Guests and Team</h3>We were humbled to be led by Lady Norena, our Keynote Speaker, whose wisdom and grace blessed the gathering and set the tone for the day. Our Worship Minister, Pastor Mercy, carried us into God’s presence with depth and sincerity, and she was joined by Lady Victoria, who served alongside her in song. We were also honoured by the presence of mentors, distinguished guests, and friends who stood with us in faith and accountability. Their presence was not only a blessing but also a visible reminder that Wise Wives is surrounded by a community of encouragement and covering. The band created an atmosphere of reverence and joy through their music. We are equally grateful to our photographer (Makesure Photography) and videographer, who captured the beauty and spirit of the day, ensuring these intimate moments can continue to inspire long after the event. And to our Sacred Spaces Dream Team — the volunteers who welcomed, served, organised, and carried the weight behind the scenes, we see you, and we thank you. You were absolutely exceptional, and your dedication made the day flow with grace and excellence.<h3> </h3><h3>Gratitude to Our Sponsors</h3>Sacred Spaces was made possible because of both corporate partners and the wider Wise Wives family. We are deeply grateful to our official sponsors<figure id="figure-5yh6vkyycmexiqtmk"><img id="5yh6vkyycmexiqtmk" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/16KQFNGVGEFNXjIkLtK8HXGr0UcgwQdjArnKqyvhbzIA4x5ni4YO9vvLGazhPvIq.png" alt="prayer meditation" title="prayer meditation" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 3/2; object-position: 85% 65%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="3:2" data-caption="" data-positionx="85%" data-positiony="65%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/16KQFNGVGEFNXjIkLtK8HXGr0UcgwQdjArnKqyvhbzIA4x5ni4YO9vvLGazhPvIq.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 3/2; object-position: 85% 65%;"></figure>KUPES Young Women's Network&nbsp;Onyx TechnologiesAstro InnovationsTreatsworthTasty Food Boutique&nbsp;The Cake Lovers&nbsp;But the truth is, it took a village. Family gave monetary contributions. Some of my KUPES sisters sowed seeds quietly, without logos or publicity. Friends, even at the last minute, gave into the event — some without attending in person. Others interceded in prayer, known to us and unknown. Every single one of these gifts, whether financial, spiritual, or practical, made Sacred Spaces what it was. For that, we honour you. Your generosity and prayers carried the event, and your seed will continue to bear fruit in every life that was touched. Your contributions helped us create an environment where women could encounter God and community in a meaningful way.<h2> </h2><h2>A Step Forward</h2>Sacred Spaces is more than just an event we’ll remember — it set the tone for what Wise Wives will continue to build. As wives, mothers, and leaders, we need moments like these to reset, refocus, and hear from God. We will continue creating such spaces, because when wives gather around God’s presence, homes are strengthened, marriages are renewed, and communities are impacted.

Sacred Spaces: A Call to Intimacy with God

<h3>Choosing Words that Build</h3><blockquote>Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” — Proverbs 18:21</blockquote>In March, Wise Wives leaned into the theme of Communication and Connection. We reflected on how powerful words are in shaping the atmosphere of our homes and influencing the direction of our lives.<figure id="figure-pyehz9ckcrmexgqo0w"><img id="pyehz9ckcrmexgqo0w" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2beG3lmYtp5uUudyTgb3vjbslVKlfka6g7RVUoxVuEvkIa6sSkeCN7z9ljua4p1W.png" alt="positive communication" title="positive communication" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 40% 20%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="40%" data-positiony="20%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2beG3lmYtp5uUudyTgb3vjbslVKlfka6g7RVUoxVuEvkIa6sSkeCN7z9ljua4p1W.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 40% 20%;"></figure><h2>Communication and Connection at Home</h2>In personal relationships, the words we choose can significantly Marriage is a daily rhythm of words. Respectful, life-giving language builds intimacy, while careless words create distance. For our children, words are identity-shaping. Every conversation has the potential to teach them who they are, who God is, and how they should treat others.<h2>Communication in Prayer</h2>Prayer is communication too — the most important kind. The devotional reminded us that prayer is not a script, but an honest connection with our Father. Sometimes we speak; sometimes we simply listen. In that sacred space, our words find alignment with God’s will.<h2>The Speaking Life Devotional Experience</h2>Beyond the daily readings, we invited everyone with the devotional into a 4-week community experience. Every Saturday at 8 a.m., we gathered to reflect on the milestone days:Day 7 – Healing WordsDay 14 – Emotional IntelligenceDay 21 – Social Media WisdomDay 28 – Building Trust Through CommunicationThose sessions were practical and deeply personal. Women shared testimonies of how even small changes in language shifted the atmosphere of their homes and workplaces.<figure id="figure-ws15wqagopmexgreng"><img id="ws15wqagopmexgreng" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/7OrTJ8WR59NpqT1qs9z7zFXyx0fJ8pPGwLMjvNJJ01zxnKxzDCxQrppigZHQTosF.png" alt="happy customer" title="happy customer" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 " style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 10% 0%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="10%" data-positiony="0%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/7OrTJ8WR59NpqT1qs9z7zFXyx0fJ8pPGwLMjvNJJ01zxnKxzDCxQrppigZHQTosF.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 10% 0%;"></figure><h2>Carrying It Forward</h2>“Communication and Connection” wasn’t just a theme for March. It’s something we carry forward. Every word spoken to our husbands, children, colleagues, or friends has weight. The choice before us is always the same: will this word build, or will it break?As Wise Wives, we choose life. We choose connection. We choose to speak in ways that reflect God’s heart.<h2>Take the Journey Yourself</h2>The Speaking Life Devotional is available in digital format on our Selar store. You can purchase:The Devotional only — 31 days of guided reflections.The Bundle (Devotional + Workbook) — for a fuller journey into communication and connection.<a title="Speaking Life Digital Collection " href="https://selar.com/161j16" data-mce-href="https://selar.com/161j16">https://selar.com/161j16</a>Take the journey with us, and begin choosing words that build.